Do the best before it's late

Manusia lahir , hidup , lalu mati
Waktu berlalu tanpa terasa
Sang maut menanti waktunya tiba

Satu persatu orangtua,orang terkasih dari teman-teman dekatku telah dipanggil illahi terlebih dahulu .
Dari sini aku belajar , dari sini aku sadar , bahwa maut tak pandang hulu , tak kenal umur , tak kenal waktu dan tak kenal tempat .

Tak pernah terfikir dan terbayangkan olehku jika kedua orang tuaku harus pergi , pergi selama-lamanya sebelum aku dapat membahagiakan mereka , membanggakan mereka , membalas jasa-jasa mereka , mengasihi mereka sebagaimana mereka mengasihi aku waktu aku masih kecil. 

"Alhamdulillah , terimakasih ya Allah , aku masih punya mereka , kedua orangtua yang selalu mengasihiku" ucapan syukur yang selalu aku ucapkan setiap hari ketika mengingat banyak teman-teman diluar sana yang tidak seberuntung aku.

Kan kulakukan yang terbaik , untuk membanggakan mereka , membahagiakan mereka , dan tidak mengecewakan mereka . Tak ingin ku sia-siakan mereka selagi mereka masih hidup.

Starting today with..

1. Hari ini sebelum kamu mengatakan kata-kata yang tidak baik, pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak dapat berbicara sama sekali.

2. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang rasa dari makananmu, pikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak punya apapun untuk dimakan.

3. Sebelum anda mengeluh tidak punya apa-apa,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang meminta-minta di jalanan.

4. Sebelum kamu mengeluh bahwa kamu buruk,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang berada pada tingkat yang terburuk di dalam hidupnya.

5. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang suami atau istrimu,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang memohon kepada Allah untuk diberikan teman hidup.

6. Hari ini sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang hidupmu,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang meninggal terlalu cepat.

7. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang anak-anakmu,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang sangat ingin mempunyai anak tetapi dirinya mandul

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8. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang rumahmu yang kotor karena pembantumu tidak mengerjakan tugasnya,pikirkan tentang orang-orang yang tinggal dijalanan.

9. Sebelum kamu mengeluh tentang jauhnya kamu telah menyetir,pikirkan tentang seseorang yang menempuh jarak yang sama dengan berjalan.

10. Dan disaat kamu lelah dan mengeluh tentang pekerjaanmu,pikirkan tentang pengangguran, orang-orang cacat yang berharap mereka mempunyai pekerjaan seperti anda.

11. Sebelum kamu menunjukkan jari dan menyalahkan orang lain,ingatlah bahwa tidak ada seorangpun yang tidak berdosa.

My one and only , dad

What is dad ?

A dad is someone who

wants to catch you before you fall

but instead picks you up,

brushes you off,

and lets you try again.

A dad is someone who

wants to keep you from making mistakes

but instead lets you find your own way,

even though his heart breaks in silence

when you get hurt.

A dad is someone who

holds you when you cry,

scolds you when you break the rules,

shines with pride when you succeed,

and has faith in you even when you fail…

My Daddy

Who is the one person who can always make me smile?

Even when I’m mad at him?

Even when he makes me cry?

Even when he makes fun of me or laughs at me.

He is one of the people who has always been there for me, one who has always loved ♥, cared, and provided for me.

He is one of the two most important people in the world to me. Someone I ♥ , with all my heart .

He is my friend,my hero,my one and only, but most importantly he is my…

♥Daddy 

Dare to be

Dare to Be

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

At all times, Dare to be!

Dybbuk , Jinx in box

This post come spontaneously out of my mind after I watched the trailer oh 'The possesion' , There's a sentence which told that the movie is based on true stroy . Then I started to find out the real stroy from this movie .

The trailer

The movie is about A young girl buys an antique box at a yard sale, unaware that inside the collectible lives a malicious ancient spirit. The girl's father teams with his ex-wife to find a way to end the curse upon their child.

As a result from my curious , I've learn that the box in the movie is the commonly used name of a wine cabinet which is said to be haunted by a dybbuk, a spirit from Jewish folklore. The box achieved recognition after it was auctioned on eBay with an accompanying horror story.

In Jewish folklore, a dybbuk ( Hebrew adhere or cling) is a malicious or malevolent possessing spirit believed to be the dislocated soul of a dead person

he term "Dibbuk Box" was first used to describe the subject of an original story by Kevin Mannis which he posted as an eBay auction listing (not the story in the movie Possession) Mannis, a writer and creative professional by trade, owned a small antiques and furniture refinishing business in Portland, Oregon at the time. According to Mannis' story, he purportedly bought the Box at an estate sale in 2001. It had belonged to a German Holocaust survivor named Havela, who had escaped to Spain and purchased it there before emigrating to the United States.^[3] Havela's granddaughter told Mannis that the Box had been kept in her grandmother's sewing room and was never opened because a dybbuk—an evil spirit from Jewish folklore—was said to live inside it. He offered to give the box back to her, but she became upset and refused to take it.

On opening the box, Mannis found that it contained two 1920s pennies, a lock of blonde hair bound with cord, a lock of black/brown hair bound with cord, a small statue engraved with the Hebrew word "Shalom", a small, golden wine goblet, one dried rose bud, and a single candle holder with four octopus-shaped legs.

Numerous owners of the box have reported that strange phenomena accompany it. In his story, Mannis claimed he experienced a series of horrific nightmares shared with other people while they were in possession of the box. His mother suffered a stroke on the same day he gave her the box as a birthday present—October 28. Every owner of the Box has reported that smells of cat urine or jasmine flowers and nightmares involving an old hag accompany the Box.Iosif Neitzke, a Missouri student at Truman State University in Kirksville Missouri and the last person to auction the box on eBay, claimed that the box caused lights to burn out in his house and his hair to fall out. Haxton had been following Neitzke's blogs regarding the box from day one and when he was ready to be rid of the Dybbuk Box Neitzke sold it to Jason Haxton, Director of the Museum of Osteopathic Medicine in Kirksville, Missouri. Haxton wrote The Dibbuk Box, and claimed that he subsequently developed strange health problems, including hives, coughing up blood, and "head-to-toe welts".Haxton consulted with Rabbis (Jewish religious leaders) to try to figure out a way to seal the dybbuk in the box again. Apparently successful, he took the freshly resealed box and hid it at a secret location, which he will not reveal.

Skeptic Chris French, head of the Anomalistic Psychology Research Unit at Goldsmiths' College, told an interviewer he believed that the Box's owners were "already primed to be looking out for bad stuff. If you believe you have been cursed, then inevitably you explain the bad stuff that happens in terms of what you perceive to be the cause. Put it like this: I would be happy to own this object."

Source : Wikipedia

somebody that you used to know

"Somebody That I Used To Know"(feat. Kimbra)

[Gotye:]

Now and then I think of when we were together

Like when you said you felt so happy you could die

Told myself that you were right for me

But felt so lonely in your company

But that was love and it's an ache I still remember

You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness

Like resignation to the end, always the end

So when we found that we could not make sense

Well you said that we would still be friends

But I'll admit that I was glad it was over

But you didn't have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing

And I don't even need your love

But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough

No you didn't have to stoop so low

Have your friends collect your records and then change your number

I guess that I don't need that though

Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Now you're just somebody that I used to know

Now you're just somebody that I used to know

[Kimbra:]

Now and then I think of all the times you screwed me over

But had me believing it was always something that I'd done

But I don't wanna live that way

Reading into every word you say

You said that you could let it go

And I wouldn't catch you hung up on somebody that you used to know

[Gotye:]

But you didn't have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing

And I don't even need your love

But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough

No you didn't have to stoop so low

Have your friends collect your records and then change your number

I guess that I don't need that though

Now you're just somebody that I used to know

[x2]

Somebody

(I used to know)

Somebody

(Now you're just somebody that I used to know)

(I used to know)

(That I used to know)

(I used to know)

Somebody

The earlier

17 agustus 2012 , bukanlah hari yang begitu ku tunggu-tunggu . Bertambah umur atau mungkin berkurangnya jatah hidup . Tapi ya nikmati saja , bertambah tua itu kan sudah pasti.

Kado dan kejutan bukanlah hal yang begitu ku harapkan saat ulang tahun , sekedar ucapan dan doa sederhanapun sudah cukup menyenangkan. 17 agustus 2012 adalah tanggal merah, dan sekaligus hari libur untuk sekolahku . Ya , tiap tahun , hari ulangtahun ku adalah tanggal MERAH .

Banyak hal menyenangkan tahun ini .

14 agustus 2012 , I got an earlier gifts , from my bestfriend , yosia . Padahal , hari ulangtahun masih cukup lama , sekitar 4 hari sebelum tanggal 17 , dia sudah memberi kado , unexpected gift hehe

A cute vintage shirt ! Disimpan didalam kotak yang gaketebak sampe yosi nanya "Tau ga ini bentuk apa ?" hmmmmm , Oh god "Rainbow cake , hahaha"

Masih dihari yang sama , acara buka bersama sudah direncanakan bersama nanda dan ica , 

makan di salah satu resto di ciwalk , yah , tak ada yang aneh dan mencurigakan saat itu . Sampai akhirnya saat sedang asik dan serius  makan .......

candid by nanda . lol

"Aku minta kuah tambahan dulu ya ..." ucap nanda , serius dan tak mencurigakan . Ga begitu digubris , aku tetap makan :'-) hap hap lahap

Dan tiba-tiba , out of the blue .. seorang waitress datang membawa kue ber-krim putih imut dengan lilin angka 17 dengan api menari di diatasnya yang tertancap pada permukaan kue . Gosh , I've got an earlier birthday suprise . Dan semua org mulai menatap ke arah meja kami , dia karnakan nanda dan ica yang menyanyikan "Happy Birhtday" song dengan begitu sumbang merdu-nya.

Really an unexpected birthday suprise from them . Mereka bilang takut keburu libur dan mudik , yah tak apa lah , ulang tahunku dipercepat bersama mereka hehe.Bukan cuma itu , mereka memberi kado yang benar-benar kocak...

Terimakasih nan - ca  ♥

Besoknya 15 agustus 2012 , lagi-lagi ada 'earlier gifts' , dari mentari tentunya , teman sebangku waktu kelas 10 . Kadonya dibungku berwarna-kan pink , berpita pink , cukup besar , dan parahnya tidak di plastik atau dikantongi , ku jingjing kado yg sangat menarik perhatian itu .. tapi terimakasih tari